In Mexico, around the last days of October to the beginning of November, you’ve probably seen all those bright orange flowers, sugar skulls, candles and photos everywhere. That’s Día de Muertos or Day of the Dead, one of the most beautiful and meaningful traditions we have here.

A lot of people outside Mexico think it’s like Halloween but it’s not. It’s not about fear or spooky things. It’s about love, memory and celebrating life, even after death. The idea goes way back to ancient Aztec times when people believed that death wasn’t the end, just another step in the journey. So once a year, families welcome back the souls of their loved ones to visit the world of the living.

And that’s where the altar comes in with the famous “ofrenda.” You’ll see these altars everywhere: in homes, restaurants, schools and even offices or any work area. Each one is unique, but they all share the same purpose which is to honor the people we’ve lost and to make them feel welcome.

They’re filled with photos of those who passed away, along with things they loved when they were alive like food, drinks, cigarettes or tequila. Candles light the way for their spirits to find their path home, water is placed for their thirst after the long journey and marigold flowers, the bright orange ones called cempasúchil are believed to guide them with their color and scent.

Día de Muertos actually lasts two days. November 1st is known as Día de los Angelitos which is the day to remember children and those who passed away young. November 2nd is the main Día de Muertos, when families honor all the adults who have passed. It’s a time to visit cemeteries, light candles, play music and share food turning grief into celebration.

And recently, this beautiful tradition has grown even more. Now many people also make altars for their pets, their dogs, cats or any animal that once shared their home and heart. October 27th has become the day to remember them, to thank them for their loyalty, their love and all those little moments that made life better.

You’ll see small altars with collars, toys, treats and photos, it’s one of the most touching things you’ll ever see because they are family too.

And while for most people this time is about family and remembrance, there’s also another figure that holds deep meaning for many Mexicans, La Santa Muerte. She’s a sacred image, a personification of death that many see not as something to fear, but as a protector and a spiritual guide. People pray to her for safety, love, health or even justice and her devotees treat her with enormous respect and devotion.

Her altars are filled with candles, roses, fruits, tequila, cigarettes and even money offerings. On her day people gather to pray, light candles and thank her for the blessings they believe she’s brought into their lives. It’s quiet, sincere and full of faith.

Some of the Cuties also have this personal connection to Santa Muerte. For them, she’s not something dark or mysterious, she’s a symbol of strength, protection, and gratitude. So, during these days, they include her in their altars too as part of the celebration and as a reminder of how death and life coexist in balance.

It’s a mix of Prehispanic beliefs and Catholic traditions that turned into something deeply Mexican, a day that’s not sad but full of warmth, colors and memories to celebrate those who passed away and welcome them back to the world of the living.

I personally love this tradition, but unlike Halloween, this isn’t about parties or costumes, it’s something much more personal and intimate. It’s about reflection, love and memory. So I can’t really show what the girls do for this day of the year it’s something private, meaningful and personal for each of them.

Still, I really enjoy writing about it in the blog, just like in previous years. It’s a way to share a bit of our Mexican culture with all of you the people who follow the agency, visit us and connect with us from all over the world.

Halloween always brings a totally different kind of energy,  playful, loud and full of color.

And while I can’t really show much of what the girls do during Día de Muertos, Halloween is another story. This year I did get to share some of what our Cuties were up to and honestly they looked amazing. You can see their photos in the forum using those sexy costumes.

Many of them fully embraced the Halloween vibe, wearing those sexy costumes and makeup looks that turn heads wherever they go. Some went for cute and creative outfits, others leaned into the fantasy side angels, devils, nurses, cats, superheroes, you name it. A few even took to the streets just for fun, trick or treating or snapping photos with friends.

And of course, others chose to celebrate the night in true Cuties TJ style,  heading out to costume parties and enjoying the nightlife which always lights up even more around this time of year.

It’s funny how Halloween has changed over time. It used to be about scary masks, fake blood, and monsters, but now? It’s about confidence, fun and expression. The new trend isn’t about who can look the scariest but who can look the sexiest. And honestly, I’m not complaining.

So Halloween isn’t just a costume night, it’s a celebration of personality.

Now talking about the Cuties, as some of you probably remember from our last blog post, Isabella had been thinking about changing her look and let me tell you, once she made the decision, things moved fast. Well… the decision part did but the process itself took an entire day.

Her plan worked out beautifully. Isabella is now blonde with a new haircut that gives her a totally fresh vibe. I’ll be posting her photos on the forum and will post a video on WhatsApp soon so you can all see the transformation for yourselves.

Right now, her hair already has the first and most important stage done, but there’s still one final touch up coming this week. I’ll share the update once it’s finished but honestly, even now she already looks gorgeous.

What I really admire is how she took this change seriously not just for looks, but as part of her work. Isabella sees herself as a responsible, active woman, always evolving and staying creative. This change isn’t just about color; it’s about attitude and bringing something new to the table for the clients.

And speaking of Isabella, she also had a moment this week. She reached out to Emily to give her a few words of support. Emily’s been doing well, consistent, responsible and contributing positively, but lately her updates have drawn some comments from other girls that… let’s just say, weren’t exactly the kind of reactions I’d expect.

Isabella noticed that and said straight up that those things shouldn’t be happening. It was a small but meaningful gesture and it shows the kind of teamwork and empathy I love to see around here. Everyone’s different with their own styles and ways of expressing themselves, but mutual respect is what keeps everything balanced and healthy.

So, kudos to both Isabella for her stunning new look and her supportive spirit and to Emily for staying consistent and professional through it all.

That’s what Cuties TJ is all about: beauty, confidence, and respect on every level.

On a slightly less cheerful note, Leslie decided to take a few days off and she did it pretty abruptly which honestly had me a little worried. But I get it, she needed a mental and physical break, time to disconnect and recharge. I told her next time it would be better to let us know so we don’t stress out or think something bad happen. Irina and Isabella also checked in, making sure she was okay and honestly, I’m proud to see that level of commitment and care among the girls.

Honestly, moments like this reminded me, and the girls themselves reminded me too, why this agency keeps getting better and better since we restarted here. Here, we actually used our resources to help each other and that’s something that really changed in this agency. Seeing the support, care and responsibility the girls show confirmed it for me. It’s not just about work it’s about building something strong, professional and human at the same time.

And that’s exactly why I also need to stay focused on maintaining stability within the agency. I need that same level of commitment from everyone, so recently I had to make a tough decision with Fatima. In the first place, I’m not willing to give away the exposure she had with her name, her promotion, everything started here with me. Unfortunately, she decided to take it elsewhere a few months ago and just not into doing work for her that goes elsewhere anymore. She did offer to stay exclusive with Cuties TJ when I told her about taking her off but by then it was too late. It’s not about numbers or adding more girls to the catalog right now, as I’ve said before, I’m not planning to grow the roster at this point. Instead, my focus is on making everyone who’s already here stronger, giving them the recognition, they deserve. The number of Cuties I have now is incredible and they all deserve to shine for their hard work and commitment.

Exactly why I also let Rebecca on ice for now. Don’t get me wrong, she’s beautiful and has gotten some really good feedback, just like all the girls here. But every now and then, she started to lose touch with reality a bit and act like she was entitled to certain privileges.

The truth is, this isn’t how things work at Cuties TJ. Everyone has to earn their place, contribute and stay on the ground. So for now, I’m letting her focus on her priorities. Once she’s ready, we will have a conversation and see how she wants to move forward.

And speaking of keeping things balanced and fair, I’m happy to share some positive news as well.

As you may have noticed, Joss is back and so is Paola. I made sure to talk to both of them beforehand so they could understand the direction I’m taking and what’s expected here at Cuties TJ. So far, everything’s going well they’ve already had their first appointments but it’s not the time to relax. Right now, it’s all about getting active and staying sharp.

I’m also in talks with another Cutie who wants to come back. I’ve been explaining how things have changed, how I work now, and what the expectations are. Everything is fine so far, I’m just waiting on her photos so she can appear on the page. I reminded her that I’m not adding more girls at the moment; my focus is on improving what we already have. But she will always have a place here if she’s ready and willing to commit.

On a lighter note, Miranda has been thinking about updating her photos. She really loves posing for them and she has a lot of natural talent for it. On top of that, she’s been staying in shape and focusing on balancing her diet and routine.

One thing I find really interesting is that she’s also started learning and experimenting with new recipes since cooking is one of her passions. Of course, it’s something many men appreciate, but beyond that, it’s just a reflection of who she is. Miranda has a bunch of qualities that are attractive and unique, and she likes to show them off in her own way. I’ll be sharing more updates on this soon, because I think it’s nice to give everyone a glimpse of the woman behind the escort, not just what you see in the room and will be doing that more often in the blog and forum

For now, she’s also started a collection of perfumes as a little hobby. It’s small, personal, and elegant just like her. I think it’s these details that make each of the Cuties unique and I love being able to share that side of them.

With this idea, inspired by Miranda’s approach of sharing more personal aspects of the Cuties, I’ll be talking more about this in future blogs. I think it’s a great way for everyone to get to know the women behind the profiles, their passions, hobbies and little things that make them unique.

Looking back at everything I’ve shared from Day of the Dead and its deep meaning, to Halloween, to the updates, changes and growth of the girls themselves I can’t help but feel that Cuties TJ isn’t just about work; it’s about celebration, support and growth, and that’s what I love sharing with all of you.